5 Ways to Help Dad Find His Stride
I always expected my husband to do more-more help around the house, playing more with the kids. I found myself looking to other fathers and wanting my husband to be more like them. I know now it was frustrating for him, and I know he was doing the best he could. My helpful criticism was not helpful at all.
One day I was venting to a friend and asked if she had the same problems with her husband. She paused, took a breath, and said to me, “Well, I think of all the things my husband does for me and our family. I think about all the pressures he has at work, trying to get everything done and be home at a decent hour. I think about his responsibilities at church. When I consider all those other responsibilities he has, I feel blessed that he does as much as he can at home.” Wow, that brought me down a peg or three!